INSECURITIES. Lack of confidence. Eat you alive. Creep you inside. Make you hate people you don’t even know. Take you away from happiness. It’s normal to have insecurities, but they exist not to be fed, but to be fixed!
I know it takes time to love our insecurities, I know it takes time to accept them, but stop making excuses to not fighting them. So many people survive from this mental disorders, so that should happen to you too!
And it’s heart breaking if you’re being insecure because you want yourself as perfect as the celebrities or models in the magazine. Because a little fyi, they’re all photoshopped. Remember our sister Zoeey Deschanel who had a little cat fight on twitter with one of the popular fashion magazine months ago? Yup, that fight. A fight about how her face can change that much, that pretty and that… different ( cough, photoshop ).
Isn’t it too much?
I am not saying that they’re all ( the celebrities and models ) fake. Yes, they’re beautiful. But that skinny body and beautiful face, they got them the hard way. So many of them work out everyday, do a lot of botox and plastic surgery, such a price to pay!
So shut up, pretty. You’re pretty. You don’t have to own a big eyes to be pretty. You don’t have to be a paper thin aka skinny to look pretty. Remember what Bruno Mars said, cos you’re amazing, just the way you are ( only if you’re confident and focus on improving yourself ).
Even celebrities have insecurities as well!
“Learning to not be insecure took some time. I would always see skinny models and think I didn’t fit in, but I realized I can’t change my reality; I can only do what I can to improve my body and work out to stay fit and healthy,” says Kardashian, who admits, “I love the definition I see in my arms!”
Speaking of Kim, you gotta see this.
Kkkrazy.
It’s not only Kim who has insecurities. You can see more in here.
So maybe a lot of you guys are screaming inside, so yeah what the hell? What am I supposed to do after knowing all of this? And how can I change mine or improve them anyway?
PRETTY FACE?
Girls, the power of make up.
SKINNY BODY?
Diet. Gym. Healthy food. I know this is a lifetime struggle to get in the best shape, but it’s not impossible to achieve!
STYLISH
A lot of fashion magazine ( online or not online ) you can read and learn to find your best style, they usually give you the do’s and don’t's for the latest trend, but it’s definitely okay if you got your own style. There are so many fashion blogs too nowadays you can check out my favorite websites.
PERSONALITY
No need to choose who you gotta be, it’s you and always you. So be you! Be a girl with the true personality, true talent and true heart. If it’s not what’s inside that shine, no matter how shiny your appearance is ( this is not cliche ), you won’t shine the good way. INNER BEAUTY LADIES! OR GENTLEMEN!
And what happens if you think you can change everything ( especially your body ) as ‘perfect’ as you’ve always wanted it to be? What’s crossing your mind right now? Me? Our sister, Heidi Montag. Sorry sis, but it’s you that can teach us this lesson best.
Have a great day everyone!
cool stuffs…
Sadly some ladies clearly don’t know what they want… insecurities are monstrous feelings.
thanks!
yup, a lot of girls forgot to figure what they want, which is kind of sad because to know what we want can possibly lead us to happiness, right? : )
Girls are too wrapped up in trying to be what others want rather than finding out who they want to be!
True! But, I think that girls nowadays are way smarter and stronger! I hope so :]